I met a couple who lost
their son due to a heart attack, and whose mortal remains hasn't arrived yet
home from Europe where he was working, since the procedures are not through
yet. It's been more than a week since they recieved the news of their dear
son's demise; a boy who was so affectionate to his parents and to his younger
brother.
It was so difficult for
all their family and friends to accept this tragedy and to hear the father’s
cry was too much to take. Yet he gathered some strength through the consoling
words of his friends and family, and the close-knit family still continues
their prolonging wait.
We went there to condole
the bereaved family and the father and younger son welcomed us. With a few
relatives around, the household waits in patience for the papers to be cleared
and his remains to be brought back home.
The pain was so intense
and we told them that the mother needn't even come to meet us if she doesn't
feel like. But after some time, she slowly came. She hugged me and cried and
without a word she conveyed all her feelings through her silent tears. The
beautiful cheerful lady looked totally shaken and lost. Her body was shaking
and she had no courage to face the world. She found some comfort in the tight
hug of the younger son and slowly went back to her room. I had no words and I
knew absolutely nothing can ever comfort a parent who lost the child.
Before leaving them, I
went to the bedroom to see her. She took my words of comfort as if she was so
hungry for them. She hugged me once again tight and told me this.."please
pray that he should come soon." I cannot explain or express what I felt at
that moment. I saw HUMILITY, SUBMISSION TO THE WILL OF GOD, UNQUESTIONING
FAITH, HUMBLE DEPENDENCE ON GOD EVEN IN TIMES OF TOTAL BROKENNESS.
In this world of blaming
and rebelling, questioning God and denying Him when any small thing doesn't go
the way we want, calling God cruel and make Him responsible for every little
misfortune, these people stand as Real Heroes. Not even once, not even as
a reaction to this unexpected shocking news, did they blame or question God or
their fate.
I don't know if our
presence made a difference to their grief. But we received the greatest lesson
of our lives! Their grief may never end, their wound may never heal. But I am
sure that they'll find their strength in their God and keep on moving. And I am
doubly sure that they will find relief in their younger son who is also so
affectionate and caring and they'll be fine and will find enough reasons to
smile again.
It is neither our religion
nor the way we preach it so loud, but it is the way that we pass through the
most horrible tests and trials of life that proves the depth of our faith in
God.
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